defining the relationship

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Registered: 03-17-2004
defining the relationship
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 6:52pm
I want to have "the talk" with the guy i have been dating for 9 weeks now. Is this too soon? For the first 5 weeks, we saw each other once a week and now it's been twice a week. We have been moving slow. The only physical contact we've had is kissing at the end of our dates and the kissing are only pecks; nothing really passionate. How do I approach defining our relationship? I don't exactly know how to bring it up. I don't want to push him too quickly just in case he may be dating someone else too. Or should I wait for him to bring this topic up. Thanks in advance for your advice.