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Wed, 03-10-2004 - 12:19pm

It does sound as though this relationship is de-escalating, and he is drifting away. If a couple does not grow closer and more bonded, if they do not share activities together and spend more time together, then things are not growing between them.

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Registered: 09-26-2003
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 1:30pm

Its unfortunate that he isnt giving you and the relationship the love and attention you deserve...however, the longer you allow him to do this, the longer he will. If he isnt willing, or doesnt want to have a serious committed realtionship(as it sounds you do), then you need to accept(as hard as it may be) that and move on and look for someone who has similar goals and is looking for the same thing as you out of a relationship..


Good luck,