depressed about a trip

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Registered: 07-12-2004
depressed about a trip
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Mon, 07-12-2004 - 2:12pm
I am living with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 but we have been together for 2 years now. Well the story is that he is from a different Coutry than me. I am mexican and He is from Europe. Well he likes to go visit his family every year at lest twice for a month or a month and a week. I feel very sad every time he goes away for so long. He went in January and now he left just today at 4 in the morning and i just can't go with him because of legal reasons. I feel so depressed today and anyway i usually get depressed easily over problems. Please help me to be more positive because i feel that without him i am nothing. I need to be stronger but besides that i am a very sensitive person that worries to much for everything. I am just overly sensitive and he wants me to be stronger. I need help on how to be more positive while he is away or just to be more relax in my life. Please someone talk to me about my situation. I am so scared that i cannot overcome a loss in my life such as my family members, or my boyfriend future husband. Please help me to how be stronger with life situations.Thank you so much.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 2:37pm
originalalone...

While Pianoguy is sure that you miss your b/f like crazy...this is YOUR OPPORTUNITY to do some stuff for yourself. Take an enrichment course, get involved in a sport or community event, catch a movie, do a little shopping or some walking...and pamper yourself a little!

It's not healthy to "pine" or feel continuously sad when the man you love is out of the area...because that means YOUR LIFE means nothing....and I'm sure that's not true?

Let him visit his family while you give yourself some "fresh air" and plenty of time to breathe it!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 07-12-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 3:22pm
piano guy thank you so much for your words. You made me feel better and i know that i could do things to make me relax, I have plans to go out with friends and working out and also spend time with my family. Thank you so much. I will listen to your advice.