Deserve Better?

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Registered: 12-02-2007
Deserve Better?
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Sun, 12-02-2007 - 12:11am

There's always this consideration when in a troubled, new, or premature relationship:

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 1:37am

>>Good looks, sexual physical endowment, work/financial success, or even appearance thereof.<<


the things you are looking for could be considered shallow at first glance.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 10:51am
I agree with aisha. Your desires might be shallow because the definition of "shallow" means that you are concerned with things that are only skin-deep. If this guy's penis is so small that he doesn't please you, or his looks are so bad that you cringe, then I guess you're not really entitled to give him a chance. You're allowed to date, or not date, any guy you want for any reason you want. But yes... you should be aware that writing off a guy for a "shallow" reason means that he deserves better than you.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 6:34pm

Welcome to the board xanthangum,


I've always gone for guys that have a 'unique' look, not the standard or usual 'oh he's good looking' it's more about attraction for me.