Desparately need some advice... please!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-25-2007
Desparately need some advice... please!!
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Wed, 07-25-2007 - 10:59pm

Hello Everyone

Lately my relationship with my husband has not been the same.... its been different ever since i miscarried in June. He doesnt seem the same, like he doesnt kiss or touch me like he use to and he even wanted me to go back on the pill. He doesnt want to have another child now until we get our finances sorted out, he wants to get us a house first.... I understand what he is saying regarding our finances but he wasnt like that before I miscarried. I have been feeling lonely and worthless because of how he is showing his feelings towards me lately. When i say im feeling worthless is because of comments he is suggesting like " someone needs to make money here", he wants me to go back to work but which i reluctantly said i will but not till next year as i do not want to put my daughter in daycare before she is 2 years old.... I try to talk to him but he doesnt really want to talk back... is this how he is coping with me miscarrying? We had a few little arguments and im the one who always say sorry for hurting his feelings as i dont like seeing him unhappy and to keep the peace but still i sense things arent the same even when we made up, like when i ask him to check if he is happy with me, he says he is ok but i sense he isnt ok with me.... what should i do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 11:34pm

Welcome to the board imurfantsy,


Sorry to hear about your miscarriage.