Desperately Seeking a Solution

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Registered: 03-19-2007
Desperately Seeking a Solution
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Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:03pm
I don't get along with my mom. We argue constantly. I don't think she likes me very much. She show more love for my sister than me. I want to know how do I get along with her and if not get along all together how do I tolerant her?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:15pm

Welcome to the board bosseygirl2.

May I ask, how old are you? I'm assuming you live at home with your mom and your sister? Is that true?

What kinds of things do you argue about?

Here's a few things to consider reading:
The Dance of Anger, Harriet Lerner
The Four Agreements, Miguel Ruiz

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Registered: 03-19-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:27pm
Hi, I am 24 years old and live with my mom and sister
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:32pm

Consider the books....

Also are you working? In school? Ready to be on your own? Maybe in a roommate situation? Sometimes moving away and being more independent helps the relationship.

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Registered: 03-19-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:33pm
Me and my mom argue about every little thing such as school. I attend Medical Career institute and I study a lot in order to maintain my GPA 3.7 but she doesn't want me to study too much. We argue about cleaning up around the house and I am always the guilty one. I can do my chores but she doesn't see that all she see is what I don't do. My sister could be arguing with her and than my sisters throws me into the mix. I would say aren't you arguing with mommy not me. I am just tired of her picking on me. I am the blame for every single thing. I need help desperately because I want it to work