dh just left ....

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Registered: 07-21-2005
dh just left ....
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Mon, 03-19-2007 - 9:39pm
we have been together for 6 yrs (married for 4) & this is really the 1st big fight we have had. about a month ago, he told me he wasn't happy & its kind of gone downhill from there. well he has decided that he is going stay at his dads house til he figures things out. he told me that he wasn't sure if he was still in love with me....but that he does love me. i told him that we could make it like it was before...but im not sure he believes me. i just don't know what to do. i know he wants his space so i am going to give it to him, but im not sure if i should just completely ignore him or try to keep in touch just so he knows how i feel. what should i do?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 03-19-2007 - 10:58pm

Hi goddess_boutiquegirl and welcome to the board.

Hopefully, he knows how you feel, I mean, I'm assuming you told him. Let him have some space and let him miss you.

Reading material to keep you busy:

Should I stay or Go: How Controlled Separation Can Save Your Marriage, Lee Raffel and Jean Jouston

Divorce Busters by Michelle Weiner-Davis

How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together: Breakthrough Strategies to Resolve Your Conflicts and Reignite Your Love by Sue Ellen Page

Hopefully, someone else will have some good advice for you as well.