did he use me? or am i paranoid...
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| Thu, 05-24-2007 - 1:14am |
ok so i meet this guy through mutaul friends it wasnt planned , and i wasnt looking for anything or even thought anything of him but bam we hit it off like right away he took me home that day and he asked for my number so i gave it to him and 2 days went bye and i called him ..ever since then we were like i dont know how to explain it his best friend so happens to be my best friends boyfriend and he told both of them that he feels like he has known me forever and that i was an awesome girl granted i have only known him a month but he has treated me better in that short month then anyone i had ever been involved with .. well about right after a month after we met he got a call from his recruiter for the army he had tried to join about a year ago but he was too heavy and was told he needed to loose some weight so he was like eh watever but this time he was asked to come in and try again so he did and made it... and he told me that he had always wanted to and when i asked him where we stand at he told me that he will be gone to bootcamp for 19 weeks then when he comes home he will be here for only 2 weeks then after that he will be gone to where ever they send him for a year or longer and that we didnt really have enough time together for it to be logical for him to ask me to wait and i respect that and knew that this is problay the right thing .. and his has told his whole family how he feels about me and all my friends that it was real but for some reason after that day he got very distant and never really called cept like twice and was really short with me after he asked for my adress so i went to his best friend and asked if he knew why he was being weird and he said thats is becasue he really was starting to fall for me but realized he really wanted the army thing to and he would rather avoid u or be short with so that i wont get any more attached and be more upset and just to let it go wich he made a comment before saying you will thank me later when i asked why he didnt want me to wait for him .. we were sexually involved but i really dont feel like it was all just about a guy getting laid becasue i really feel it was real and he was sincere but at the same time i have been through so many kinds of relationships where its always casual and never gets to that dating point but with him they way he was with me i knew if things were different we would be together i just wanted your advice and opinion on if you think he is full of poo or if its actually possible that he is being the logical and smart one out of the two haha becuase i have 2 opinions from everyone his family says he is right but others say pfft he was going into the army and knew he wouldnt be getting laid anymore and striahgt up used you... ahh what do you think? thanks ..monica

Crazycat, you've done this post before and have had a few responses. Perhaps you're continuing to post the same question in the hope that someone will tell you you've not been used?
The thing is, we and your friends can only speculate at his intentions. None of us can give you a definitive answer as to what was going on in his mind. Only he knows what he truly felt.
But even if you find out his intentions, it doesn't change anything. What's past is past. It's time to let it go and move on.
He is the only one
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yea sorry i didnt mean to repost this same topic haha
i went into another one and copy and paste it not realizing it was the same thing sorry guys!