Did I do the right thing?
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Did I do the right thing?
| Sat, 06-12-2004 - 12:26pm |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year, for the last 6 months or so he has been living at my place. A couple of days ago, I asked that he not live here and that we still see each other. He is truly upset by my decisions and is acting like I'm dumping him. He loves me "more than you know" and tells me all the time. He works for himself, contractor, and seems to be a hard worker. The problem is he doesn't contribute to my household bills. He keeps telling me he will and I know he has a couple of good paying jobs coming up and he will catch up then, I know these jobs don't start for a month or more and he barely has any money. He talks alot about the things he's gonna do but I am really not listening anymore because I just don't see him following thru and achieving them.
Our sex life is fantastic! My friends and family like him and he just thinks I'm "all that and a slice of bread".
Our sex life is fantastic! My friends and family like him and he just thinks I'm "all that and a slice of bread".
When I've told him I feel like I'm being taken advantage of he is very insulted that I have lost respect for him. We've both had bad relationships in the past. I really love this guy, I want to believe all that he says, but right now I think he is more a talker than a do-er. When he does have money he is very generous and he has never given me any reason not to trust him. I want to tell him to come "home" but I ......... am at a loss.
Did I do the right thing?

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Thanks Amberwaves3, I hope your situation improves!
Thanks All !!
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