Did I make him angry? He's ignoring me now?

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Registered: 12-27-2011
Did I make him angry? He's ignoring me now?
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Tue, 12-27-2011 - 8:38am

I was with this guy I've been dating and after hanging out I was looking at my phone. I brought up that some guy had texted me 4 times in a row, and that I didn't understand why people text constantly. He asked me a couple questions, like where I met him, how I met him, and if he knew him. He didn't seem bothered, and texted me the next day as usual like he said he would.

However I noticed that he didnt text me back after replying 2 times and the next day I had to initiate it, which is uncommon, and once again he only replied a couple times and stopped. A day has passed which he has not contacted me whatsoever, which has never happened before in the 4 months we've been talking. And his phone is just fine.

I know for a fact he talks to and most likely dates other women. He doesn't want a relationship with me either. So why would it bother him if he found out I'm also dating other people?

Him being jealous/mad is the only thing I can think of as to why he would stop talking to me. Did I make him angry when I mentioned the other guy? Am I at fault, and should I contact him or leave it alone?

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Tue, 12-27-2011 - 11:36am

I don't understand women today!

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Registered: 06-07-2004

he told you he doesn't want a relationship with you, so why do you care? This is a relationship board and you don't have a relationship so I'm not sure why you are posting here.

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Meow.

Great support and advice... not.

<< I don't understand women today! >>

Yes, I see that myself.

Fiss, your constant rants against texting and facebook add nothing to advice to young people. Scream all day about how texting and facebook are stupid, and in the end, no one cares. Nor should they.

Khatru, why do you have a problem the OP posting here? She apparently has some kind of relationship with this guy, being as they dated, slept together, or whatever. Even if they were just friends, it's a "relationship".

OP, it sounds to me like the guy doesn't want to hear about other guys. I doubt he's jealous, as in he wants to have a relationship.

You might want to leave this guy behind. Something sounds off.

 

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Registered: 04-21-2008

Hello everyone,

This is just a reminder to please remember to be respectful when replying to others.

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Registered: 10-29-2006
He may not be bothered by the fact that you are seeing other guys as much as by the way you chose to announce it...which could easily be interpretted as an attempt to make him jealous.