Did I make a mistake?
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| Wed, 02-25-2004 - 9:04am |
I went about my way for 3 weeks starting to get over it when he calls (and leaves a message) to tell me he was thinking about me and that his Valentine's Day was horrible. I return his message the next day reciprocating the sentiment. He hasn't called again. This was about a week ago.
All the while I've been wondering if I made a mistake by cutting him off so quickly. We really had something amazing and it is quite painful to let go. All he had to say was that we weren't casual anymore. While he didn't say it directly (to be fair, I didn't ask directly) he did say other things during the conversation that could have meant that. I've thought so much about the things he did say and wonder if I made a mistake. I don't if I'll be able to live with myself if I screwed up with him.
I sent him an email Monday, in an effort to explain my reason for abruptly ending the status conversation by telling him I couldn't see him any more and that I didn't see any point in talking more. But in reading this email over again to myself I realized that I left out the important detail of wondering whether or not I had misunderstood him to mean that our relationship was still CASUAL and not more than that. That's all I needed to hear and I'm so afraid that he said it and I just didn't understand.
Did I do the right thing by leaving? Should I try to talk to him again?

Jennifer
"Oh, that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evi
Doesn't that tell you something? He isn't willing to put in the energy to make a relationship. He called on a whim, because he was lonely. As soon as you agreed, he backed off.
It shouldn't be this difficult.
Set your sights elsewhere.