did i overreact? how to make it better?
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did i overreact? how to make it better?
| Tue, 06-08-2004 - 12:13am |
My man and I have been dating for five months. He's told me he likes the way the relationship is going, and wants it to continue. Due to time constraints/car problems, lately we see each other just once a week. Normally we talk maybe every other day or so. I last saw my boyfriend when i left his house 6 a.m. last saturday morning, after a real nice session of fooling around (no sex though). Then I didn't hear from him til Thursday afternoon! So I let him know, calmly, that I was upset that he didn't call for four days. I told him i wanted to talk to him more, but couldn't get into it while I was at work. Needless to say, I haven't heard from him since then, despite leaving two messages on his phone, one later thursday, as he expeccted, and one saturday. I know he gives people the cold shoulder when he's mad/upset with them. I don't want to keep leaving him messages and seeming pathetic, but the silence of him not calling is driving me crazy! I miss him! I wrote him a letter- should I mail it?

You've done all that you can. It isn't bad that you expected to hear from him more frequently than every four days, so don't think you've done something wrong.
You have also tried to contact him, and left messages for him. The ball is in his court. Let him contact you. Save the letter and mail it if you don't hear from him in a few days.
-amy- "CL-fiesty"