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the difficult choice
| Sun, 11-11-2007 - 5:58am |
I'm confused and don't know what to do?
The story is like this, I have a job, and on this job I'm teaching people how to learn and play a sport I'm like a coach. So I play with important people. This past weeks, one of the clients brought a girl she is 2-3 years younger then me and I began teaching her. So she is very cute, we even went on some dates together, I didn't want to make a relationship with her. So we met like friends. Then it became serious, and on one of the dates we kissed, (we didn't have sex) so after that I had some feelings for her.
After 2 weeks of seeing her, that person told me, that she wants that me and that girl to stay just best friends for some reasons: she doesn't want that I lose my clients after breaking up with her, and my reputation can be broken. Because after that girl came to me, I had a lot of important people who came at my lessons, and my financial position became better.
But I like a lot that girl, and I don't know what to do, because she is only 20 and I know very well after a break up nobody becomes friends... (it's very rare)
please help me with this situation thank you
P.Sorry for my english, I made my best.
The story is like this, I have a job, and on this job I'm teaching people how to learn and play a sport I'm like a coach. So I play with important people. This past weeks, one of the clients brought a girl she is 2-3 years younger then me and I began teaching her. So she is very cute, we even went on some dates together, I didn't want to make a relationship with her. So we met like friends. Then it became serious, and on one of the dates we kissed, (we didn't have sex) so after that I had some feelings for her.
After 2 weeks of seeing her, that person told me, that she wants that me and that girl to stay just best friends for some reasons: she doesn't want that I lose my clients after breaking up with her, and my reputation can be broken. Because after that girl came to me, I had a lot of important people who came at my lessons, and my financial position became better.
But I like a lot that girl, and I don't know what to do, because she is only 20 and I know very well after a break up nobody becomes friends... (it's very rare)
please help me with this situation thank you
P.Sorry for my english, I made my best.

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