dirty talking

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Registered: 06-10-2006
dirty talking
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Wed, 04-11-2007 - 2:56pm
I love my boyfriend very much the only thing bothering me is that he wants me to talk dirty to him while we are in bed.I am very shy and I just cant bring my self to do this any ideas on how to get myself to do this I want to make him happy
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Registered: 04-04-2007
In reply to: gale2767
Wed, 04-11-2007 - 3:48pm
I am also shy, but when I am totally into having sex and my husband talks dirty to me, I try to pretend I am someone else and just do it. It's hard at first but just use your imagination and lose yourself in the moment. You just may enjoy it!
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: gale2767
Wed, 04-11-2007 - 5:20pm

Hi gale2767 and welcome to the board,


Practice by yourself, saying things out loud.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: gale2767
Wed, 04-11-2007 - 5:52pm

You can only do what you're comfortable with. It's not necessary to turn yourself into someone you're not in order to please him. Clearly, he loves you as you are or he wouldn't be with you. You can say things to him that are meaningful and exciting to you - but don't go over your limit. You wouldn't ask him to do something that felt out of synch for him. So, if you wish, you can try a little, but keep it simple and keep comfortable.


Best wishes,

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Registered: 06-10-2006
In reply to: gale2767
Wed, 04-11-2007 - 5:58pm
thank you I will give what you said a try and not go oout of my comfort zone
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Registered: 06-10-2006
In reply to: gale2767
Wed, 04-11-2007 - 5:59pm
thanks Carrie that sounds like a good idea