divorce over workaholic issue?
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divorce over workaholic issue?
| Mon, 02-09-2004 - 10:23am |
can a workaholic improve?
DH refuses to look around for another job & his job of the last 10 yrs. requires 14 hrs. a day every day.
he gets up at 4 am to go to work and comes home at 7:30 pm.
DH refuses to look around for another job & his job of the last 10 yrs. requires 14 hrs. a day every day.
he gets up at 4 am to go to work and comes home at 7:30 pm.
and he can't even take a phone call during the day- nonstop meetings & supervising, etc.
the problem is in his head.
no one has to work like that forever.
his job actually UNDERPAYS him!
he's a great husband otherwise. but we can't have a normal life together- except seeing each other on weekends. and i think he should make the most he can make or choose to be together more.
it's a lose-lose situation for me.
help! i've been suffering w/ this for 3 years.
i'm about to take an out of town job & a job w/ travel - just so i'm not the only one who is actually here in this marriage.
he's made me miserable w/ his job obsession.

Katrina
Unfortunatly this is who he is, he likes to work, he takes pride in what he does and it is a large part of him.
James
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