Divorse or deal with it

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2012
Divorse or deal with it
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Mon, 02-06-2012 - 11:34am

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 02-08-2012 - 7:02pm

My question is why did you stay with him for 34 years..

This is what I would do but this is me.. I would sell the house, get a divorce and split the assets.. and move to fla. and live a very nice rest of your life..

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 02-11-2012 - 4:42pm

Well you're not really trapped.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 9:52am

I agree with music -- you're not trapped.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2012
Wed, 02-15-2012 - 12:29pm

thanks to all for your responces. i noticed there was nobody saying to stay..lol i have alot of support from my friends when i'm ready to start the process, i can transfer to fla thru my job and like i said not afraid to be on my own. never really was on my own, maybe thats the attraction to it. yes it's scary and i know he would never make the move to file (i actually proposed to him 34 yrs ago) hell he may be thinking the same as me for all i know. the way i'll approach would be without blame but with the reality of the situation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Fri, 02-17-2012 - 12:31pm

You may be 55, but you are in NO WAY trapped.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 02-17-2012 - 2:02pm

Fissatore,

I'm glad to have hope that even though I'm 54 there's still hope for me--I have had dates but no relationship since I got div. and it's going on 4 yrs now.