do i dare trust him???????

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2004
do i dare trust him???????
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Tue, 10-05-2004 - 9:46am
hello, i need some advice from you lady's out there once again.I am dating this guy for a year and to be honest we haveb been to hell and back, maybe even twice and things are finally looking good, maybe. It basically started as a love triangle. i was in love with him, he was in love with me and her. well some things have happened and she has taken herself out the picture. now it is just us and he has been great with me. i have some depression issues and he even has been going with me to my counseling sessions. i love him with all my heart but my question is , do you think that he is just with me now because he cant be with her or do you think that he loves me and wants to be with me. pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee someone give me some advice, the more honest and up front the better!!!!!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2004
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 11:27am
you have to give us more information. I don't think that just because she took the initiative to get out of the picture, that he is necessicarily just with you because she doesn't want to be with him. What's holding him back from leaving you and finding someone new. Nothing, so he must be with you because he wants to. WHy do you feel the way you do? Are you just insecure because of how the relationship began or is he giving you reason to think that he's stuck with you because she doesn't want to be around?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 12:25pm
How did this triangle start? Was he already dating her when you met?