Do I give him another chance?
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| Mon, 07-30-2007 - 12:53am |
Alright, I dated this guy for about 6 months. I fell in love with him. He was the first to express his feelings with me and for the first time in many years I felt loved. We began having problems into the fourth month. He works crazy hours I felt as though I was making more of effort then he. We began having arguements and wouldn't speak for days. Then it was this big emotional, "I love you and just want to be with you" speech would bring us back together. The fighting contiued for another month. The last straw with me was his constant canceling of plans. We had plans for dinner to meet and talk about everything and he just never called. 2 weeks later he calls and that was it. I stopped talking his calls. I haven't spoken to him in almost 4 months about once a week or every other week he still calls asking me to go to dinner or to give him a call and I never do. This week I just felt weak, or missing him I don't know. I answered his call. He is out of town on business and I agreed to meet for dinner and catch up. I love this man, I have dated one other in the time I have been apart from him and it wasn't the same. With my x I felt fireworks and I saw a great future with him. We even talked about marriage and moving in. I just don't know about the shutting me out when work gets crazy. I even wondered if he was cheating, though there was no hard evidence.
I want to know- Is it worth it to give someone a chance, a second chance, that has equally made you feel so in love and so forgotten?

Marriage, moving in together, fights, canceling plans, and not talking for days at a time after only SIX MONTHS?
If this guy was right for you, you two wouldn't be having such trouble right now. I don't think this is really worth saving.
So much trouble for so short a relationship! Maybe you're so drawn to him BECAUSE he is unavailable.
I would move on. There are plenty more available men in the world.