Do I Leave or do I stay?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2006
Do I Leave or do I stay?
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Sat, 04-21-2007 - 3:53am
Okay here is the situation. This guy and I have been seeing each other for the past year and a half. I am in love with him and I am 95% that he is in love with me. We are not dating anyone else on the side. He does everything that he can to make sure that I am happy. For the most part when we are together I am extremely happy, but when I have a chance to think I wonder and I just living a fantasy. Cause there is no official commitment. It's like we are in a serious relationship with out the title. This topic is always something that we frustrate ourselves talking about. I just want that security or a title. Also, to meet and get to know his family. Those are the two things that I want the most from him. He works insane hours and I feel like I am competing with his career, and that is a battle that I think that I will lose. I don't know what I can do to save it or whether I should find a way to let it go. How come what he is giving me isn't enough. Please I need some help on this on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 2:13am

Welcome to the board bitkhy21,


Sounds to me that you both have different priorities right now.