Do you snoop on your spouse/partner

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Do you snoop on your spouse/partner
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 4:54pm

Do you snoop on your spouse/partner



  • Yes I do
  • No I don't
  • I have with other partners, but not this one
  • No, but I would if I thought they were cheating
  • No and I never would
  • Other


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Registered: 10-13-2004
Mon, 09-10-2007 - 5:51pm

I voted "no, but I would if I thought they were cheating"

I've never had the slightest desire to snoop on my partner. His behaviour has never indicated that something is going on. However, if he had a radical change, perhaps I'd act differently.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 11:24am
I voted no, but I would if I thought they were cheating. I could have also voted I have with other partners, but not this one. My ex would do very suspicious things like lock his car even though it was parked in the garage and hide the keys or hiding his cell phone and always having it on vibrate. Plus he would shrink the computer screen whenever I walked by the bedroom and I wasn't allowed in the room while he was on the computer. If my husband started behaving like that I would probably confront him and also snoop.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 2:36pm

I voted that I have with others.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 12:48pm

I did snoop on my Dh during a difficult time in our r/ship. He had an issue he was fighting with and he couldn't be honest with me. Eventually he overcame it and was able to talk to me about it openly. I lost the urge to snoop then. This is the only time I've ever done it in a r/ship and will hopefully be the last! In general, I dont' think its unhealthy but I guess sometimes your r/ship is in an unhealthy phase!?

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Registered: 09-12-2007
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 2:11pm
I voted "no, but I would if I thought they were cheating"

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 6:50pm

When i was married for 15 years i never snooped on my husband, but now i am with someone who is closed off and yes i snoop.