Do you snoop on your spouse/partner
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Do you snoop on your spouse/partner
| Mon, 09-10-2007 - 4:54pm |
Do you snoop on your spouse/partner
- Yes I do
- No I don't
- I have with other partners, but not this one
- No, but I would if I thought they were cheating
- No and I never would
- Other
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I voted "no, but I would if I thought they were cheating"
I've never had the slightest desire to snoop on my partner. His behaviour has never indicated that something is going on. However, if he had a radical change, perhaps I'd act differently.
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I voted that I have with others.
I did snoop on my Dh during a difficult time in our r/ship. He had an issue he was fighting with and he couldn't be honest with me. Eventually he overcame it and was able to talk to me about it openly. I lost the urge to snoop then. This is the only time I've ever done it in a r/ship and will hopefully be the last! In general, I dont' think its unhealthy but I guess sometimes your r/ship is in an unhealthy phase!?
When i was married for 15 years i never snooped on my husband, but now i am with someone who is closed off and yes i snoop.