Do you think he will cheat on me?

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Registered: 01-10-2012
Do you think he will cheat on me?
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Fri, 02-24-2012 - 8:11am
I have been dating my SO for a little less than a year and we now live together. We are incredibly happy. I have been cheated on in the past so it is a fear I deal with constantly in relationships. I so much want this relationship to work. So what is the problem? I met my boyfriend on Match and within weeks we became exclusive and both took our profiles down. He does however still keep his OKCupid profile up, which he told me about. He changed his status to "seeing someone" and said on his profile he is seeing a "fantastic girl" and is 'open to friendships." So he is not trying to hide the fact that he uses it, but really, do men need to be online to find female friends? It just bothers me. He is always affectionate and loving so I don't sense he is on the prowl...yet. Another thing that bothered me is that I looked through his many questions he answered (Okcupid has lots of fun quizzes and answers) and it asked 'Would you ever be with someone just for booty calls and sex with no intention of a relationship" and he answered "yes" and in the note field put "and still do." Obviously this was before I met him. He says he has never been a player type and was married for 12 years (recently divorced). But now I don't know. I am worrying about nothing? I just don't want to get hurt. Other than these two factors I have no other reason to think he will cheat on me.

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 02-24-2012 - 1:04pm
I agree that a man/woman in a commited relationship should not be looking to make NEW opposite sex friends and visa versa. Now if he wanted to make friends with other couples to hang out with, that to me would be more acceptable.

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