Do you think it's okay for men in com...

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Do you think it's okay for men in com...
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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 4:16pm

Do you think it's okay for men in committed relationships to go to strip clubs



  • Yes
  • Yes but only once in a while
  • Yes but only for a friends bachelor party
  • No
  • Other


You will be able to change your vote.


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 09-20-2007 - 11:00am

I voted yes, but only once in a while.

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Registered: 01-30-2005
Thu, 09-20-2007 - 11:12am
I voted yes. I don't have a problem with it at all. I'd probably wonder what was going on if he went every single weekend or more frequently than that, but it never bothered me as a recreational activity for the guys.



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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-20-2007 - 2:34pm

I voted no. In Canada, the strippers go right down to nothing and play with their genitals...thats too far in my opinion. To be honest, I think its less to do w/the nudity and more to do w/sanitary issues. I think its gross - all those bodily fluids in a heated, smelly, smoky room. Gross!


Dee

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Thu, 09-20-2007 - 2:54pm
LOL. Some of those girls we do a lot for a dollar tip. If I was doing the things they were, it would cost a lot more money and I would need it up front before hand (but I would never do that).
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Registered: 01-26-2005
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 1:05pm

I voted "other". For me it really depends on the guy. For my relationship where I might have been open to it previously, because of things have happened (affair, dday, counseling and rebuilding) it is not ok in any way shape or form.

Some guys can be normal human beings about it, some guys go crazy and bad things happen. On another note, as far as normal dudes go, as long as it's not excessively and his woman knows allllll about it, and he is acting in such a way that if she were there he'd still do it, it's fine.


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Registered: 09-19-2007
Fri, 09-21-2007 - 1:20pm
I vote, "Yes - but once in while" with a