Does he still care? What do I do?

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Registered: 07-24-2007
Does he still care? What do I do?
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Tue, 07-24-2007 - 4:41pm
I have this boyfriend that I like alot. His name is Charles. We started dating the year of 2004 and ended February of 2006. During that part of time me and him both thought we were completely perfect for each other. We both had the same cell phone and for both of our contact names, we put "My Love." We did everything for each other. He always had my back just like I've always had his. We were in love for real until we broke up in 2006 over stupid stuff. After we broke up, I started another relationship with a boy named Bryan and he started one with a girl named Tiffany. Then in December that same year, I broke up with Bryan and he broke up with Tiffany. We finally got back together January 2007 and he leaves that same month for the Army Reserve for 6 months. We talked on the phone every now and then while he was gone. He told me when he returns, don't act like I dont know him and I said the same thing back. This summer, the day he came back I was in Europe and he was all I could think about while I was there because I knew he was finally back. Then the day I come back home, he left again for an Army Reserve business trip thing for a few days. He comes back from this the night before I went to Florida for Disney World. Finally, I come home and he's there. When I saw him I gave him the biggest hug I could give. But don't let this story fool you because after that hug, I was feeling neglected. He was making it seem like he doesn't want to deal with me anymore, like he was ignoring me, and wasn't talking to me. But a couple days ago when he saw me, he gave me the best kiss I've ever had. This is why I'm so confused. I don't know if he still cares and does not care. I be wanting to talk to him about this but he be so busy. If anyone can give me some advice about this, please do so!!! Thank you so much!!
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Registered: 12-11-2006
Tue, 07-24-2007 - 5:28pm

After knowing him for so long, why don't you feel comfortable asking him what he is doing? Tell him that you are getting mixed messages.

Frankly, a guy who asks you to pretend you don't know him and ignores you when you see him isn't worth your time.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 07-24-2007 - 5:51pm
Actually he told her not to act like she didn't know him.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 07-24-2007 - 5:53pm

Welcome to the board amber2009,


You really need to talk to him about this. There is no way any of us can tell you how he feels. He could be frustrated that it took so long for the two of you to finally see each other after he came back since you were both traveling. But that is just a guess.

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