Does He Still Want Me?
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| Tue, 04-10-2007 - 12:42am |
Hello All,
Well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years, soon to be 4 in june. We recently took a year break because he felt that I was fooling around with getting my education. We only got back together because he felt that i was pushing it and I was always around when we were suppose to be on a break. While on our so called break he had female friends that would call and he would take on dates. Anyway we got back together recently and I found out that he was having cyber sex with girls online, now I found out in a imature way, I went through his email. When I questioned him about it he got mad for me going through his email again. He said that he had did the cyber sex thing because he was frustrated with his home environment and me. But I asked him recently why he did it and he said because he wanted to know if another girl would find him sexy. Now I don't really know what to think of that, my mind is all confused. Now I don't trust him fully but I'm trying to, but when he goes in the bathroom he takes his laptop with him and locks the door (which he never did before becaus he never had a laptop). I just don't understand why you would have to lock the door. Now he recently got another myspace account, he said that he only got it to see if I trusted him, but he still has it and he has been loggin on to it everyday. I mean I don't know what to think about our relationship now, I thought we were doing great but i was wrong. I just need some advice on what to do.

Hi badlyinluv and welcome to the board,
::Now I don't trust him fully but I'm trying to, but when he goes in the bathroom he takes his laptop with him and locks the door (which he never did before becaus he never had a laptop).
I see this a tad bit differently.
I'm thinking, "Wow, instead of going and finding new sex partners, developing a relationship with someone else, he instead 'took matters into his own hands' so to speak and did the cyber thing while he was away from her."
I am thinking he takes the laptop in the bathroom with him so you can't get on it and snoop when he is in the bathroom.
Was the cyber sex while you were on the break or when you got back together?
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