Does he Want Something Again??

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Registered: 10-08-2007
Does he Want Something Again??
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 8:47pm

Well I Dated someone for 2 years, but he moved to California. We still were together for

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 9:14pm

'We broke up because we had problems.'


I think we need more info before we can answer

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Registered: 10-08-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 9:24pm
what i meant by " we had problems" was that things were different once he moved. We only talked on the phone, because of our jobs we did not have the chance to travel and see eadch other.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 11:08pm

Welcome to the board dancswty,


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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 9:33am

I don't think that you should take him at all seriously.

a) If he really wanted you back, REALLY wanted you back, he'd do more than just start sending you text messages once in a while
b) Anything someone says while drunk you should take with a grain of salt. If he isn't saying it while sober, then try to consider that he didn't really say it.
c) If the above doesn't persuade you... Listen to the others here. What changed in you, individually, that would make you now work as a couple where you didn't before? If you go back to the same person, you're inviting yourself back into the same relationship that broke. If the reasons why it broke aren't completely mended, then expect the same exact thing to happen. Not getting back into a relationship with him would probably save you the same amount of heartache, and if you do go back, it will undo the healing that you've gone through since you split. Are you sure you want to revisit that? Be absolutely sure before you pursue this.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 1:46pm

Why don't you just ask him?

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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 6:01pm

Well, long distance relationships are difficult to maintain. It's hard to read what's going on, and it's certainly difficult to build up the bond that's needed. What's the chance that the two of you will live in the same place? What's the chance for the two of you to have significant time face to face to work through issues and start again? Before you get back involved with him, take a look at where this can really take you? Is it a side road that will only divert your time and energy, or