Does this mean divorce???
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Does this mean divorce???
| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 11:37am |
Well, for starters I am new here. I have been married for three years and we have been together for seven. We have one three year old and I am three weeks away from having another baby. My problem is that last week we went on a trip with some of our friends. Well, my husband acted like a real jerk the whole time and he really pissed me off. We have argued a lot since I got pregnant and we always moved through it. So we got into another argument and I asked him if he wanted a divorce. He never answered me. I felt really bad for blowing up at him and appoligized. I also did some soul searching and decided that I wanted to change (for the better) and I wanted to make our marriage stronger. He then proceeded to tell me that he didn't know if he wanted to stay with me or not and that our last argument was "the straw that broke the camels back". I cried and pleaded with him to try to make our marriage work and he said that he doesn't know that I just need to wait and see. He says his head says no but his heart says yes, but is cloudy. He says he wants to see if I am sensire but it still may be too late for us. But then he wants me to be happy around him and not depressed. He now wants to do things for me and buy stuff for me and wants to play around and act like nothing is wrong. I don't understand. I asked him if he needs me to move out so that he can think but he says that he doesn't. When I talk to him and I start crying, he gets upset because of the baby (he says). Anyone have any advise??
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| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 12:55pm |
First of all, your pregnant! Your husband should be more than sensitive to your feelings right now because your in a fragile state. If he can't cope, that's his problem...not yours. I will never understand how some men can treat their woman so emotionally terrible during some of the most delicate times in our lives. Your husband needs to get a grip. If he wants a divorce fine, let him go. But, he needs to make up his mind and stop hurting you in the process. When you say that you want to change for the better what exactly do you mean? Do you have an explosive temper? What is it? That could definietly change my answer.
