Does my bf have to know about past flings, that I'm still friends with?
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|Mon, 12-10-2012 - 11:22pm|
Me and my bf have a great relationship. We are best friends, lovers and we share almost everything with each other. We have been exclusively dating for about 9 months now.
I have a lot of guy friends, and he's never been jealous of them (I moved and don't live in the same city as my friends anymore, so there hasn't been much cause for jealousy anyway). Among my friends, there are a couple of guys that I've hooked up with, that I still chat with ("chat" meaning ocassional chatting to keep in touch). I only see these guys as friends and nothing more. There have been no bars between me and my bf, and we talk about everything, so it almost seems like it is wrong to *not mention* the fact that I hooked up with these friends. But at the same time, it would feel weird to bring it up when it hasn't come up in coversation (and hook up stories don't really come up in conversation).
What is your opinion? Should I bring it up in conversation? Should I avoid the topic? Am I over thinking???
I almost feel guilty that my bf doesn't know this about these friends, just because I would want to know if my bf chats with people who he's hooked up with even though he's just friends with them. Please be nice even if you might think this is a stupid question or the answer is obvious.