Does she want to come back?

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Registered: 11-06-2007
Does she want to come back?
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 2:23pm
I have been dating a girl for about 6 months. Things were going good. She always seemed happy when she was with just me. We just got home from Florida this past weekend and she said it was the best birthday she has had in a while. I am 25 and she just turned 24. She seemed depressed coming home but I know she usually gets depressed when she comes home from florida. She would love to live there and work at disney. She had not talked much the past few days so I asked whats going on. She said she has been really busy with work and has not been as happy as she has been. She is afraid of serious relationships and feels she needs to put work first. We broke up but she said she is an indisive person and could call and change her mind. Well we talked last night and she said she never even thought of having a break up conversation but I brought it but. It may be for the best right now she said. We talked for a while. We may go to the movies tonight depending how she feels after work tonight. She even looked up movies times just in case. What should I think? Does she want to possibly be back together or date? Or is this just a lets be friends thing?
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 5:10pm

Welcome to the board,


It sounds like she could be interested in getting back together, but really this is a question that only she can answer.

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Registered: 11-06-2007
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 10:48am

We never went to the movies. She said she really wants to go but asked if we can go later this week as she is tired and had to work this morning. I said thats fine but I did ask her what she thought about us getting back together. She asked if she can wait to answer that until she quits her other job (which is at the end of the month). She said she has a lot on her plate that she wants to get done and is not sure she could commit the time she thinks needs to be there for a relationship while she is working the two jobs. I said well we could hang out when you have free time. She said that is what friends do and not someone who is dating. Not sure what to think. She did give my house key back because she said she didnt want to lose it.


My delima is this. I can't tell if she wants to come back but my brother and his gf want me to meet this new girl? What would be the best course?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 4:43pm

Welcome to the board s174153,


Do you just want to date? Or do you want more than that?

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 9:45pm

Even though she is a nice person, she has you where she wants you. She gets to be