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|Sun, 01-22-2012 - 6:20am|
I want to preface this with that I know that snooping is probably not the way to go but I didn't know what else to do. Under a vast majority of circumstances, I would say I have the best boyfriend ever and I couldn't ask for more. I literally want to marry this man..until I looked through his texts. I highly doubt that he's cheating on me. He doesn't have the past and he's 100% a stand up, amazing man, but I think he does have an innappropriate relationship with a female friend. He does have a lot of female friends from before we met (we've been dating a year and he's aware I have a lot of male friends as well), however, he's always introduced me to them and had me around them constantly so there's never an issue. I'm perfectly fine with the ones that I know. They're sweet girls and it's never been a problem.
However, after reading some texts, there is a girl I've never met or even heard him mention who has drunk texted him and is continuously asked him to come over on week nights and week end nights. From what I can tell, he's denied her offers. Their conversations are more than this, of course. They talk about football, movies, etc. I know he talks to most of his friends on gchat or texts with them daily, so that's not weird to me. Asking him to come over after being out, however, is not normal. He's with me 5 to 6 nights during the week but of course I can't account for the nights that he's working late or not with me. I know that they've gone to movies together and hung out occasionally (without him telling me). I don't want to jump to conclusions that he's lying to me but now I can't be sure. He recently signed up for a morning boot camp class that I found out (through texts)