Don't know what to do
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| Wed, 01-07-2004 - 7:59pm |
So, he said that he didn't know what he wanted in the future anymore. Since then, things have gone downhill. I found myself trying to impress him, not acting like myself in order to make him see what he has. Lastnight we were talking and he said that he doesn't see our relationship going forever. I am only 20, but after talking about marriage, this is kind of dishartening. I am not sure if I should continue with the relationship, and try to push away the "sence of impending doom" that came when he said he didn't want to be with me forever. If there is a chance of it working out, I want to take it, so I don't regret it. On the other hand, I don't want to restrict myself to a dead-end relationship if he doesn't want to get married to me someday, and risk being together for several ore years and suffer a sudden and emotional breakup. I guess I'm asking what other would do in my position. Unfortunately, I would not be able to be friends with him, atleast not at first. I love him so much, and he's been a big part of my life for over a year. I would not be able to downshift to being just friends without hurting myself worse.

After hitting the "reply" button, I realized I'm not so sure what to say!! While I agree that it's usually bad to stick in a relationship if you know it's going to end sometime ... I also think that at such a young age people tend to change their minds a lot! (I'm 21, a youngin' too!).
in fact find urself another date b4 uttering those words.
once a guy shows how disloyal he can be, i wd never trust him.
so sorry
bye bye
kitties