drugs and our relationship
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drugs and our relationship
| Thu, 01-29-2004 - 1:50pm |
well, me and my boyfriend have been together for about eight months. i love him very much and i know that he loves me as well. when we first started going out i knew that he did drugs. i told him that i didn't like it and after a couple months he quit. it really hasn't been a problem. sometimes he goes on these vacations for like a week and he never calls me and lets me know anything. i always end up finally getting ahold of him and i usually know that he was using. i want to know why he hides this from me, knowing that i know. well, the other day i got ahold of him after i didn't talk to him for about 5 days. i don't think he was planning on seeing me for awhile because he was still messed up on the drugs. he couldn't even talk to me. he was trying to lie to me and tell me he didn't do that much. i want to stay with him but i can't trust him after this and i don't think that he is very honest with me about where he goes and what he does. he needs help and he said to me that he wasn't going to do it anymore. should i believe him? i just feel that he is choosing drugs over the ones who love him to pieces, like me and his brother. should i stay with him or try and help him with his obvious problem? i really need help

Carrie