To dump or not to dump
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To dump or not to dump
| Fri, 04-18-2008 - 6:46am |
After ending a 32 yr. marriage, not looking for new romance, a man introduced himself to me - 'out of the blue.'
About the guy in this story: 60 yrs old, blonde, blue eyes, a bit paunchy, solid job, excellent income, nice house,
great car, humorous, and romantic.

Welcome to the board sweedish2007,
In my opinion, I don't know what there is to think about. He lied to you about an STD and has had unprotected sex with you knowing full well that he could have infected you with it. I would dump him immediately and get an appt to get yourself tested.
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Welcome to the board sweedish2007,
In addition to him lying to you about STDs, he's also still has addiction issues and ex-gf friend issues. To me, you are looking at 3 strikes.
Time to return the ring and move on.
It doesnt sound like he is living a life that would preclude monogamy and devotion to you or the relationship.
I read your post., I know all the half truths etc but I am not getting what you feel about him? My 2nd husband had his stuff and I was married for 12 years and it was the happiest years of my life. I think going in if you know what your getting and you know that most likely leopards don't change there spots and your happy at least 80 percent of the time then don't throw the baby out with the bath water.