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| Mon, 06-23-2008 - 10:43pm |
Back around November or so, I confided in telling my boyfriend something that absolutely NO ONE knew about. We've been together for a while now, so I know that I can trust him with my life. I still can, even now after everything happened. I'd rather not say (just yet) what I told him, but none the less, he ended up telling his family, and our entire groupd of friends, including my 2 best girlfriends when I wasn't around. I was so pissed, and even thinking about it now makes me so angry!
Well I found out today that one of my best friends knew the secret all along, and I didn't know my boyfriend had even told her. Him and I fight a lot, but we always end up fine in the end. So we've been doing ok lately, and then tonight, I asked him when he told

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Welcome to the board porcelain1,
::I'm embarrassed to this day by the situation, and all he replys with is "see, how does it feel?" Because what I told him was embarrassing to him.
So by telling him, you embarrassed him privately and in retaliation he publically embarrasses you?
I emailed my friend last night to ask her what my boyfriend had said and that I told her I'd explain the situation. All she replied back with was "no need to explain, just drop it no further discussion case closed." And that right there made me embarrassed again! Knowing my own best friend doesn't even want to hear it again from ME!
Needless to say, if I even begin to talk about the situation with him he gets very angry because he doesn't want to hear anything about it. And right now I'm still so pissed off that I want to tell him that hes a vengeful ass for doing that to me, but it will only cause problems for us that we don't need again in the relationship. It's just frustrating!
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Ok, first it's not that your friend never wants to hear from you, my guess is that your friend doesn't want to be in the middle of it, have to take sides and doesn't want to discuss what was said.
You mentioned that you divuluged a secret of his once.
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