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emotional detachment
| Mon, 06-09-2008 - 4:38pm |
The man I've been dating for three months now has a hard time emotionally attaching to the women he dates.
| Mon, 06-09-2008 - 4:38pm |
The man I've been dating for three months now has a hard time emotionally attaching to the women he dates.
Welcome to the board trustlove8,
Love does not heal or cure all, espeically if the other person has done no inner work to resolve the issues of a past relationship filled with hurt.
I agree with itwinflame 100%. At this early in the game, if you put more of a focus on commitment and attaching yourself to someone, you run the serious risk of blindsiding yourself to what's really best and wasting time you'll never get back.
He may be a really good guy but I'm very hesitant to think that he's relationship material at this point in his life. To be walking on eggshells at three months is not a good sign. In a way it's alright for him to be making travel plans without you, but on the other hand, my guy of over three years came happily to my cousin's wedding 9 hours away with my family when we had only been dating two months. I cannot imagine that being unwilling to integrate you into his life is the mark of a man who is ready for this.
You need to stop focusing on his needs and start a relationship with someone who has the right assets to compliment you.
Thank you all for your advice.