Emotionally Broken

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Registered: 10-09-2008
Emotionally Broken
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 10:19am

After being out all night (happened before) my boyfriend

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 11:10am
Just curious...Did you and your lover discuss you and he living together and making a life with your kids and eventually getting married?
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 12:59pm

Yes, he wanted it all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 1:30pm

Welcome to the board confessions2008,


Like you said, you aren't married, so what do you want?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 2:07pm

Not breaking up my family is why he got me back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 2:12pm

As parents, we are our children's role models and if we (you) are unhappy with who you are, your life and your choices, that unhappiness will reflect in how you interact with your children and they see far more that us parents give them credit for seeing.


Maybe just counseling on your own so you can work through your feelings?





angels

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 6:16pm
If you can be happy and demonstrate to your kids what happiness means and make it a safe environment for them...why not go for it?
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Registered: 10-09-2008
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 10:19pm

You know I went through the same thing ..and I am glad I went thru with it ...but not for the reasons I thought at the time...I was in a loveless marriage and wanted more and I have three kids..older and spread out in ages..


I finally stood up for myself and left my marriage after long and drawn out thoughts I finally did it...trust me NOT EASY ...but truly the most selfish thing I have ever done for myself and I am so truly thankful to myself for doing it.....Funny how the relationship after my husband failed miserably.


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 10-10-2008 - 3:06am
Welcome to the board cetababy, thanks for participating.




angels

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Fri, 10-10-2008 - 10:16am

That is my whole point ...I understand what is important


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2008
Fri, 10-10-2008 - 1:19pm

Thank you for your and all who posted words of advice.

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