Is this the end?

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Registered: 10-08-2007
Is this the end?
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 12:32pm
Hi everyone, i'll try to make this as short as possible while still hitting the main points. I met my girlfriend Debbie this past april through mutual friends and we hit it off big time. I knew before i met her that she was legally married, however I also knew that she had filed for divorce. Over the next few months we actually fell in love,
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: jramoz85
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 12:48pm

Welcome to the board jramoz85,


What does 'so-called' husband mean? If she's married, she had no business starting a relationship with you. I can't tell you how to save a relationship that looks like an affair.

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Registered: 09-30-2005
In reply to: jramoz85
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 12:52pm

Welcome to the board,


If he is doing all the things to her, pershaps she could contact the police. You may also want to do also if he is sending you threatening messages.


Otherwise all you can do is let her know that you care for her and are there to help her.

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Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: jramoz85
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 12:56pm

No one can sabotage your relationship without your permission. Sounds like she has allowed him to do so. You didn't call the police and set up a restraining order?


It also sounds like you two got involved too soon, too deep. Think about how this affects the kids.