Engaged in love but not in lust?!
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Engaged in love but not in lust?!
| Fri, 03-09-2007 - 9:14pm |
Hello out there :) I was wondering if i could get some advice: i have absolutely everything i want out of life but am not happy. I have been with my fiance for 4 years now and we finally planned and put a down payment on our destination wedding. I couldnt be happier! Except...i'm not. And i'm finding myself not sexually attracted to him anymore. Is there something wrong with me??? What do I do? Is this normal?!?! I love him & he is my best friend and the thought of being without him makes me sick. But I can't feel sexual attraction for him. Am i just sending myself off into a bad situation?!

Hi quarterlifecrisis,
How long have you been feeling this way? Do you think it is has to do with the stress of planning the marriage?