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| Wed, 06-20-2007 - 7:41am |
My boyfriend and I just got back together after a break. While we were together before I saw that he was looking at female escorts online. I confronted him, and told him this bothered me, and he said he was just curious, and that he wouldnt do it again. Well now I was on his computer and saw his history for the past two weeks, and there all escort services. This really hurts me, and bothers me. IS this a normal thing for a guy to do? Should i not be upset? I havnt confronted him that I saw these sites, I am afraid that he will get mad at me for looking on his computer. I just dont want to make a big deal out of nothing, and am hoping that it will stop. HELP

You told him you didn't like it, he promised to stop, yet he's still doing it. You can't trust him. He says he's just curious, but since he lied about stopping, how do you know he's not lying about being "just curious"?
Why were you on a break in the first place? During the break, did you both manage to repair and change what caused the break? Given the break AND the inability to trust him (I wouldn't trust him!) are you going to stay with him? And if so, why? A relationship without trust is NOT a relationship at all, IMO.
Welcome to the board jewel222,
No, it's not normal. I don't think most guys do this.
nope, this is not normal. this is what someone does when they are shopping for an, ahem, escort.
Please get yourself checked for STDs right away.