To everyone here

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Registered: 11-19-2006
To everyone here
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Fri, 06-15-2007 - 2:43pm

To everyone on this board who is unhappy or having relationship issues

EVERYONE deserves to be happy and no one deserves to be treated in an unfair or unloving way. If you are not being treated the way you want to be i guarantee that there is someone out there that will treat you the way you should be treated. Don't just settle for someone. Im saying this from experience. I was with a guy for 4 years. He didnt treat me bad, but he was very selfish and didnt want to spend barely any time with me at all. Though I was unhappy and alone at times, all i could tell myself was "he treats me good, no one will ever treat me this good. Even though he's not everything i want, I'm just going to put up with it" so i just settled. After 4 years we decided to end it all. I was heartbroken and relieved at the same time.I didnt think i could find someone that would make me feel the way he did. Then 3 months later, here comes Mr. Perfect. Seriously EVERYTHING i ever wanted. EVERYTHING!And we are now engaged and as happy as ever! You never know how happy you could be until you find someone that completely COMPLETES you! Dont give up people! Dont just settle! Go out there and find you PERFECT someone! FIND YOUR SOULMATE!




Edited 6/15/2007 2:52 pm ET by nikkit7
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Registered: 09-19-2002
In reply to: nikkit7
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 5:23pm
Congrats on the engagement! And thank you for the message of hope...