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| Mon, 06-04-2007 - 5:22am |
hi there, please will some one reply as i need help.
Well me and my bf have been together for one year gone wednesday...but theres two problems, i feel sick thinking about it and its driving me to being so down and low...
Things have changed between us, like the sparks gone, and i hate it. We were talking the other day about it sometimes feels like we're just 'friends'..i just broke down n said i love you and i dont know why this is happening. He felt the same. Things have got a lil boring between us too..sex life etc.
Then he got this new job 2weeks ago..i was very happy for him, then he announced he has to go away for 4days..i was like ok, but gutted as our anniversary was on one of the days he was away...hes came back and even though we havent seen each other for 4days its still the same. I think it made me worse that my ex cheated on me,big style,so iv got major trust and self esteem issuse...n when my bf came back he hinted on about the drinking sessions and the sauna with the men.this made my stomach turn to the point i wanted to be sick...
Hes just went to work there and told me hes on call 6days a week- 10 till 9...we dont live together so how will this work? We arent really going to see each other..it makes the situation sooooo worse as he doesnt seem bothered; like about when we are going to see each other, n our relationship seems to be going bad...i really want to sort stuff out. Ive cryed my eyes out thinking im the only one thats botherd.Its making me feel soo low, especially when hes all of a sudden got this amazing job with money n im just starting my career off in a place i dont really like,i need to pick my self up before i go too low but how...any advice.i feel like running away from it all. thanks for reading this. :-$

Welcome to the board tiggerpuss,
If you don't like you job, why don't you start looking for another one. If your bf is on call, then doesn't that mean he isn't actually at work that he just has to work if he gets called in? So then you could still see each other until he gets called in.
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Hi tiggerpuss,
What things are you doing to help improve the relationship?