Ex driving me crazy-help!

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Registered: 10-20-2004
Ex driving me crazy-help!
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Wed, 10-20-2004 - 10:52am
So here's the deal: My bf, who I have been dating for nearly 2 years now, broke up with his gf (T) of 3 years 2.5 years ago. She is a Manic Depressive and was wearing heavily on him. Thus, he couldnt take it and broke up with her, to save his sanity. Maybe that sounds a little selfish, but it is true. Whateverso, when he needed someone to talk to, I, a friend of 4 years, happened to be there. before we knew it, we were spiraling into a relationship, taking both of us in serious surprise.

However, T was still stewing. When she found out he had asked me out, she was furious. She yelled at him and threatened me. She tried to put us both on guilt trips. My bf told her off a few times, but it still isn't working. He has told her he has no desire to be involved with her romantically, but she still insists on torturing us. I want to shake her and say "HE ISN'T COMING BACK!"

How do I (or we) deal with her? Any suggestions?

HELP!

~LE

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Wed, 10-20-2004 - 4:41pm
Why is he even talking to her, taking her calls, etc? He needs to stop right now. If she comes to the house or shows up at his office, he needs to tell her that he will file a restraining order, and then follow through with it.


Carrie