ex is now dating-divorced on 12-4

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Registered: 12-26-2007
ex is now dating-divorced on 12-4
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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 3:39pm

Hi, just need some advice and help, (sorry so much info-lots to cover)


My ex and I had been married 10 years, and have a 4 year old daughter. We have had many times or stress and struggle, he also made comments that he thinks marriage is a bad idea because it makes people not work as hard in the relationship, they let themselves go etc. they

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Registered: 07-17-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 3:50pm

Wow.

~Kristi

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Registered: 12-22-2007
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 6:17pm

Your husband sounds like a weasel.

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 9:27pm
It's (in my opinion) more healthy for you to NOT want to be friends with your ex right now. I know you are hurt, but he's not the person you want him so desperately to be. You can build a civil, united partnership with him for your child's sake, but before you can do that, you have to take care of your feelings. You still have feelings for someone (understandably) who seems to not respect you at ALL. I hope you do what may not be easiest, but is in the long run best for YOU. If you are determined to get over your unrequited feelings for your ex, you WILL find someone who feels the same way about you as you do about him. Please take some time to yourself.