Ex showed up--should I worry?

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Ex showed up--should I worry?
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 1:15pm

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 2:51pm

It would be nice if he asked if you'd be ok beforehand, but I really don't think you have anything to worry about. He came clean and was honest, and her mother was there - yeah not very romantic.

The way to get the best reaction from him while still getting what you want:
"Hey I'm not mad and I'm glad you told me about it. If this happens again, do you think you could tell me about it beforehand? I don't want to be jealous but it still makes me feel a little insecure."

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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 3:00pm

Welcome to the board mimijiminy1569,


I think eggbertshootsfire gave some really good advice.


I think it is important to let him know why you feel about this, but also at the same time to be supportive. Maybe you could tell him that if he is going to met with her again that you would like to be there.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:26pm

Well, first of all, he's been very open and honest with you to tell you about this in the first place. So, he sounds as though he has integrity and is worth trusting.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 9:22pm

I thought you might like to hear the ending....


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=24525.1&ctx=0


sounds like having mom there didn't put a damper on the romance.