Ex wife problems?
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Ex wife problems?
| Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:33pm |
i Have know idea what to do, i posted here b4, to make a long story short, ive been with my bf alittle over a yr.. very much in love.. his stbx had a stroke, he started having "what if feelings" when she got out and recovered, he told me he needed to finally have a ending w his marriage, they tried for 2 wks 2 see if it was really over, both of the conclusions were they would divorce next month they both have clarity and closure on there marriage now, hes says he is now ready to give me 100% the problem is he stills wants to remain friends with her, i dont agree with this, i think talking about the kids, the house and the divorce is all that needs 2 b talked about due to all the things he has put me through with this women. He says if she needs to tell him something she something about anything feel free to call him. I cant understnad this. My point is you have me to talk to and need to talk to her about nothing besides the important stuff. Am i wrong?

I think you need to step back and realize who the rea; victims of all this are, and that is the kids...teling him he has "talked enough" about themn, or that he put you thru to much, isnt fair to them..they deserve their parents- both of them, no matter how you feel about it.
He may be her ex husband, but he is still a father.