I have been dating this guy for almost four months. We are both reserved and quiet people. He's more quiet than me. Also we are both a little shy in expressing our feelings towards one another. We have told each other that we "like" each other. I initiated this. I think he is new to relationships so he has a harder time expressing his feelings. I haven't been in a relationship in more than seven years so this is sort of new to me also.
We see each other once or twice a week. So far we have a very pleasant dating relationship. We end our dates with pleasant words and a nice kiss. We however don't talk on the phone alot except when he asks me out on dates. We both do the same amount of calling. I don't know if he is seeing anyone else. I have never brought up this subject. However, I am wondering if I should bring it up. I don't want to assume that we are exclusive and it is starting to bug me not knowing because my feelings for him are growing stronger. How can I casually bring up exclusive dating and not scare him? Is it usually the girl who brings up this question? I want to know what he thinks and how he feels but at the same time I don't want pressure him if he is not ready. Thanks in advance for your thoughts.