Exclusivity

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Registered: 05-23-2007
Exclusivity
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Thu, 05-31-2007 - 5:47pm
I have been dating a guy for a few months now. I know he had been really into me earlier. I have already slept with him at this point but there has been no talk of exclusivity or anything like that. I don't think he is with anyone else, but is this something I should bring up. I don;t want to seem needy and push him away, but I don't want to be used or taken for a fool. Is this just assumed?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sammygrl2007
Thu, 05-31-2007 - 8:58pm
Never assume. You need to discuss this!


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Registered: 02-10-2004
In reply to: sammygrl2007
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 9:17am

If you have been seeing each other for a few months and are having sex, then you should be able to ask him if he is having sex/seeing others. You don't have to be accusatory, but there is nothing wrong with asking that question. And if asking it were to 'push him away'; then you didn't really have him to begin with. A man that is into you and on the same page will not be scared off by a question like that.

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