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Ex's that are in still in love
| Mon, 01-19-2004 - 7:11pm |
What is with ex's and them still trying to contact you after they made a point of moving on? My ex and I have been broken up for over a year. We talked throughout the breakup and still knew we loved each other but needed the space. In June of '03 he started to date someone. So I figured okay we are over. However in September of '03 I get a note from him saying how much he still loves me and always will. Then I run into him on Thanksgiving weekend and we end up sleeping together. I don't understand how he could possibly be in any type of relationship if he still has these strong feelings for me? Am I just kidding myself or does he need to grow up and figure s**t out without me or his girlfriend?

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Carrie
If he'd do it to her, he'd do it to you. Is that the kind of relationship you want?
Carrie
What exactly do you want? Do you want to get back together with him?
My experience with love and your experience sleeping with an ex who currently has a girlfriend have nothing to do with each other.
'I didn't help him in any way cheat on his girlfriend.'
Did you or did you not sleep with him while he was dating someone else?
I am not blaming you totally. I just want you to take some responsiblity here.
'He is a person and could've easily stopped it whenever but he didn't'
No he didn't. That was his choice. What baffles me is that you didn't stop it either. YOu can't control what he does but you can control your behavior.
What exactly are you looking for by posting here? Do you want someone to tell you that this is all his fault? That you are the victim?
I think it is sad that you actually think he loves you because he was willing to sleep with you while still with his girlfriend.
James
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