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| Sun, 10-19-2008 - 2:11am |
Hi, I'm new to iVillage. Yesterday morning, while my boyfriend of almost two years was in the shower something inside of me told me to look through his phone. I havent looked through it since we started dating and the only reason I did was because my ex cheated on me and I had trust issues. Anyway what I found was something I never in a million years thought I would find. I found an email response to a craisglist ad which basically said he was an attractive 29 year old looking to perform oral sex on a man. I was so sick and nauseous I didnt know what to do. Is he gay what is this is all that went through my head. When he came out of the shower i confronted him and he just said he was not gay and was so embarrassed and upset. He spent all day trying to get me to not break up with him and explain the situation. He kept telling me its just something he does when he is bored and he would never actually do anything with anyone. I feel that he really hasnt met up with anyone because he's always with me and always picks up his phone when I call.
I just don't know what to do. This is the worst situation I could ever imagine. Please help!!!

If he's not bi, then he gets kicks from teasing others and leading them on.
Welcome to the board help91686,
I totally agree with true.blue.strine "If he's not bi, then he gets kicks from teasing others and leading them on.