I don't know why all your relationships end up this way, but I have to agree with him on this one.
I have to be honest with you... I really don't like the way you broached this conversation with him. For one, you keep using the term "put a label on it" - That sounds really silly. You also come across as incredibly insecure when you say "
Do you think you tend to find men who are typically emotionally unavailable?