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Tue, 02-28-2012 - 8:35pm
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Registered: 05-20-2009

I don't know why all your relationships end up this way, but I have to agree with him on this one.

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Registered: 05-18-2009

I have to be honest with you... I really don't like the way you broached this conversation with him. For one, you keep using the term "put a label on it" - That sounds really silly. You also come across as incredibly insecure when you say "

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Registered: 09-06-2007

Do you think you tend to find men who are typically emotionally unavailable?

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Registered: 09-17-2005
He doesn't want a commitment. Doesn't matter if he's sleeping with anyone else at the moment or not - he wants the freedom of knowing he's not committed to anyone.

But it's not really surprising since you say you "typically steer clear of relationships". What kind of guys do expect to attract when you are self admittedly avoiding relationships? If you're sending out "non commitment" messages, of course you're going to attract commitment-phobes.