I have been with my BF for 11 months now.
4,500 facebook "friends?"
This is odd behavior to me.
He's right, salesmen need to network.
(Sorry, message should be addressed to Tewey)
If your gut is telling you something than listen loud and clear! But if he is a Salesperson than he needs to be friends with a lot of people, including women. I would just watch his FB messages between those ladies and whatever else he does to be friends with females other than FB. I would also talk to him again about how it makes you feel uncomfortable when he's friends with so many women.
Having facebook "friends" is so common.
I don't know of any employer who wants someone to have a FB acct. to get sexy pics from women--unless someone is in some kind of "adult" industry, it seems like that would actually be a bad reflection on the place of employment.
I totally agree with music!